You know what the future will be like when you look at how parents treat their children. Part of me feels badly for parents because they don't know HOW to act.
When my parent's generation was growing up, their parents hit them, my dad was beaten and taught that men have to be the strong ones. Women were taught to be subservient, and not to be outspoken. Men turned out to be dogs of companies - breaking their backs to keep their houses warm, and food good. Women rebelled against their childhood and fought for their place in a man's world. Some won, some lost, but our world changed.
My generation was taught to be strong, intelligent, and dedicated workers. Some of us were spanked, others abused (because it started becoming abuse and not just a parent's right to raise their child), but most of us turned out as decent individuals. We work hard to take care of our own. Some of us look for love when our childhoods gave us none (or so we thought). The line between women and men and our roles in live often are blurry and sometimes we even switch places.
The children in between, and our children are coddeled. Hitting a child for any reason has been found to be abuse. Sharp words in a restaurant are often looked upon with scorn from other people. We're taught to give nothing but love to those growing up. I look around and see mostly spoiled kids doing whatever they like.
Kids should be allowed to be kids. We should also be a good compass to them, and teach them what's right and what's wrong. Should kids be spanked when they steal a candy bar from a store? Hell yes. Should they be allowed to blow bubbles? Hell yes. We need to find a good middle ground again because our future depends on how we're taught as kids. Of course, I'm saying this and I'm probably not going to be able to even have kids. But it's scary to watch the future, and wonder what will happen.
Hello, my name is Tiv, and I missed posting here.