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yeah, it sounds like all the sacrifice is on your part. If you guys truely do love each other you can wait until she is ready settle down somewhere you both can handle. Because you even posted this shows that you have your own doubts. Moving to a different country is a huge thing, think it out fully and discuss this with your friends and family, or just anyone who will listen, because sometimes it nice to hear yourself hear your own concerns over and over again.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(El-Diablos @ Jan 9 2006, 04:52 PM) [snapback]24101[/snapback][/center]
IIA. We bring you back from fantasy land.
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Unless you're tiv. Well I won't go there.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Gomi @ Jan 8 2006, 10:25 PM) [snapback]23867[/snapback][/center]
I turned down a job that would pay me 3x what i am making now for my GF. if it wasn't for her i'd still be giving hand jobs to midgets in texas. best decision i ever made. go for it timi you only live once
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Fixed. Good thing I am always here to help gomi tell everyone what he is trying to say.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(El-Diablos @ Jan 10 2006, 12:01 PM) [snapback]24253[/snapback][/center]
Fixed. Good thing I am always here to help gomi tell everyone what he is trying to say.
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I heard you got a new job at the whorehouse. The lady up front sucks them in and you suck the off.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Gomi @ Jan 10 2006, 12:36 PM) [snapback]24293[/snapback][/center]
I heard you got a new job at the whorehouse. The lady up front sucks them in and you suck the off.
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FACIAL LAFLUER....TOTAL FACIAL!

Reading through everyones responses......I didn't add in the whole life story because honestly...who the hell wants to read that?

No, I don't have feelings for her because shes in a war zone *cough* Fluffy *cough*. She and I had been dating over a year ago, but I broke things off because she was going into basic, but old flames just don't die. We honestly care for one another and I would love to take that next step with her, but to do it and drop everything is a scary hell of a step to take. Sure its easy to say, if you truely care about her you'd do it, but its not that easy.

No, I wouldnt be taking jobs from Germans....last thing I need is for the Furher to get pissy. I'd look for a job on base as an Army Civi, though they never have anything worth while open. My biggest hang up to be honest are my parents. I know they would completely object, not because of her but because of the circumstance, which I can see their point of view because like I said, it's giving up a lot. But, I have 8 months to think things through. Don't think I don't appreciate everyones oppinion, and I know it seems odd that someone would bring it up to a bunch of people he doesn't know, but hell I've known most of you all for what, 2 years now? Your oppions mean just as much to me :D
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Timi @ Jan 10 2006, 12:53 PM) [snapback]24308[/snapback][/center]
No, I don't have feelings for her because shes in a war zone *cough* Fluffy *cough*. She and I had been dating over a year ago, but I broke things off because she was going into basic, but old flames just don't die. We honestly care for one another and I would love to take that next step with her, but to do it and drop everything is a scary hell of a step to take. Sure its easy to say, if you truely care about her you'd do it, but its not that easy.


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Dumbass, I said SHE would have strong feelings for you because she is in a warzone. The adrenline and fear can stir up her emotions to an unusual high for you.

That's two posts you have mis-read or mis-interpreted what I posted. Keep it up and I will take Harold's offspring away from you.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Gomi @ Jan 9 2006, 09:36 PM) [snapback]24293[/snapback][/center]
I heard you got a new job at the whorehouse. The lady up front sucks them in and you suck the off.
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Don't be a hater cause we know what your 3x the money job was!!! Aren't you suppose to be in a meeting?
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Timi @ Jan 9 2006, 09:53 PM) [snapback]24308[/snapback][/center]
No, I wouldnt be taking jobs from Germans....last thing I need is for the Furher to get pissy. I'd look for a job on base as an Army Civi, though they never have anything worth while open. My biggest hang up to be honest are my parents. I know they would completely object, not because of her but because of the circumstance, which I can see their point of view because like I said, it's giving up a lot. But, I have 8 months to think things through. Don't think I don't appreciate everyones oppinion, and I know it seems odd that someone would bring it up to a bunch of people he doesn't know, but hell I've known most of you all for what, 2 years now? Your oppions mean just as much to me :D
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Timi, just remind you parents that they would have a free place to stay to see Europe from. On a side note, Get a bagger job at the Commisary (think grocery store). Since they only work for tips, it unreportable tax free income. Just remember not to put the eggs and bread on the bottom. Oh yea, another benifit is that if you live on base, you pay nothing for your place. I thank my friends all the time for paying my electric bill (especially this past summer here in Florida).
 
DISCLAIMER: I have no experience in dating land. However I say if you aren't dating her exclusively ATM then date other women. She's in Iraq and going to Germany. You haven't actually seen her very much I take it after she went in Basic. Life in the military is a pain in the butt for relationships, from what I've read/heard.

I'd keep in contact with her over internet / phone / whatever. In a few years, when she's done in Germany, if she still wants to be with you and you still want to be with her despite dating other women, then it sounds like you'll be a great couple. :)

If you really can't wait maybe it's time to start learning German. If you can get yourself to do that then you might know if you really have the dedication to actually go to Germany for her.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Ocrim @ Jan 10 2006, 07:28 PM) [snapback]24984[/snapback][/center]
Just remember not to put the eggs and bread on the bottom.[/b]


Please don't give bad advice. I mean these two items are the basis for a good solid breakfast? Therefore they should show their level of inportantance by once again being the foundation of the food pyramid by being at the bottom of the bag. To give the other foods support. Man bagging nubs.
 
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